By Kavita Chhibber
Can structures cause trouble in our lives?
The answer is yes.
Many of my vastu clients can tell you that I have told them what was going on in the homes even before they told me anything.
Vastu and astrology have been phenomenal in fixing a lot of the things.
But what causes some people to end up living in great homes, have happy lives, have good relationships, good health, prosperity?
The answer is not just your past life karma.
It is also a reminder that while past life Karma results in us living the current life we have, God gives us free will to continue positive actions, be generous, grateful, kind, giving, work on our Rewrite that karma.
Everytime you think positively, put yourself in the shoes of others, take care of your emotions, and learn your lessons, you will change your life even if you don’t believe in the law of karma or the fact that what goes around comes around.
If you have the courage to take a good look at yourself, you will realize you are an equal partner in participating in all that is unhealthy.. or healthy.
Most often it’s by repetitive action and expecting the results to be different. Negative or positive. Like attracts like.
We mess up by giving people the power to mess with our mind. And our lives.
Right and wrong are subjective. So what works for you is your right and vice versa.
I always tell women especially to be self sufficient and independent financially and emotionally. Like and love yourself so much that you know your worth.
And the same to all the men who allow others to ill treat them. There are a lot more of them than people realize.
Do not allow people to disrespect you professionally or personally. It will end up in stress and eventually physical illnesses.
Ultimately the only person who will be with you for the rest of your life is you.
And how you treat yourself sets the precedent on how others will treat you.
We have all been at a place where we felt we or someone else we depended on is indispensable.
Not true.
Be kind but do not allow others to mistake your kindness for weakness.
Also,there are far more good people and resources to help you than you realize. Laugh, forgive, appreciate family.